IT’S IMPORTANT TO SET BOUNDARIES

recovering-and-healing:

Recognize and respect your own needs, desires, and comfort zone.
Boundaries are critical for sustaining any respectful and fulfilling relationship. We all need boundaries.

Some people are so concerned with pleasing others, they don’t check in with their inner compass to find out what their own needs are—a need for respect, quiet, personal power, support, kindness, solitude, free choice, etc. The earlier you are aware of your own comfort zone, the less likely you will let people go too far.

roboticsuggestion:

never let anyone directly alter your code, but don’t shy away from their suggestions

Dear followers,

Please keep any NSFW interaction with me:

vague
text-based
and preferably education

Minors interact with my blog, and it is ILLEGAL for me to share or receive explicit content between minors.

I do not care, if it’s: submission, ask, or private message: please, do not ever send inappropriate images to me! Not only does it makes me personally uncomfortable, i will be obligated to block, and maybe even report you, because of moral, ethical, and LEGAL reasons.

I am willing to discuss sexual matters at length as educational tools only. I am willing to give advice. I am willing to debate stances on hook-up culture and similar topics. That is the absolute extent of NSFW discussion I expect from like-minded individuals, on this blog.

If the Tumblr porn-bots can show me this simplest of respect so should you.

I do not have many rules. But I hadn’t thought I would ever have to make a post like this.

Thank you for your time, attention, and respect.