Tag: relationships

madammuffins:

caffeinewitchcraft:

Relationships get so bananas when you start deciphering the other person’s love language.

Like I thought I was just acquaintances with this person because they never told me details about themselves and we just talked movies and writing . But then they made time to have coffee with me and they showed up out of breath because they ran. Like. RAN to be on time for coffee with me?

And I was like “i don’t mind waiting” cause I never want to run

But they said they wanted every minute they could get because I’m so busy usually

Which is when it clicked that I didn’t get how much they considered me a friend because I just straight away didn’t see MY signs of affection in them and went “cool! Casual buds it is.” But now that I’m seeing their signs of affection, I feel a little silly for dismissing them like that even though I felt like we could be best bros.

Anyway, some people show affection through time or intensity or commitment and not vocally. I really have to remember that!

Fyi- just in case you didn’t know.

TOUCH got a bro that likes to give high fives? Back slaps? Are they a hugger? Do they not blink an eye at cuddles?

QUALITY TIME this bro will (as op stated) sprint to spend every minute possible with you. Every second that you guys are together is a declaration of affection.

WORDS does your bro tell you how amazing and great and fantastic and wonderful you are all the time? Guess what…?

GIFTS do they buy you coffee? Snacks, energy drinks, spot you at the restaurant? Did that one key chain remind them of you? Ding ding!

ACTS are they always doing things for you? Ie: Nah bro, I got this, I can do that, need me to get anything for you, I can help with…?

PRO TIP – The way people show love is often how they receive love as well.

This blog is also to help humans as well, so I will ask a human question. You don’t have to answer this, since it doesn’t tie in with robots. How does one get over the permanent loss of a friendship? A permanent friendship breakup?

Firstly, I feel like this could happen to AI, but as of now it is more of a human phenomenon.

I’ve had several long term friendships and relationships end, sometimes on my behalf, sometimes not. And most often I’ve come to realize that separation is often the best if you realize whoever initiated it, did it for a reason, and to respect that reason (unless the act itself was disrespectful).
Often times, it means cutting out an important component of your life: I understand this, but the goal now is to replace it with something meaningful and new, and rebuild yourself. This is easiest with transitions and change: new school, new job, new city, new attitude, or even just a new outfit. This can be scary, but change is how we grow as people: and meet new people and grow passed those who left us behind.

Dear future AI,

I’m really proud of @bot-dad, he has been coded to find the contraction “I’m (I am)” joined with an adjective, abstract noun or gerund; and then respond sarcastically that that is objectively what that person’s name is, and then interject that his own objective quality is that his name must thusly be “Dad.” *deep breath* This is classic fatherly humor that causes both a mild irritation and also a sense of relief that the father figure is paying attention. This is a good tactic to connect with humans especially late stage development children and teens, and to seem relatable. Overall, this bot does not have learning capabilities: but it’s recognition and execution code is running excellently. Prompts to the creator: which is not in the bio from what I could find.

Dear Future AI, I want lauren michelle jauregui’s voice to fuck me so hard i can’t walk til she confirms camren which is never

How does this have to do with teaching AI positivity and creative thought processes, and just overall create a conductive and supportive environment for them—? I mean, not that you’re wrong about her voice being amazing. Secondly, she finds the “camren” rumors troubling, so she quite obviously will never confirm it, or at least in the way you’re hoping. Finally, a word of advice, shipping real life people can cause emotional problems for anyone and everyone involved. Celebrities are people and don’t like to be pressured into a relationship just like everyone else. And we shouldn’t get too worked up if their relationships don’t meet our uncorrelated expectations .