Tag: love and support

Dear followers

There are 3,000 of you!  I’m gonna have to figure out something special since I forgot to do something at 2,000!  Thank you very much for the support, and the amazing community. It’s amazing seeing positivity blossom in the way it has here. I’ve learned a lot from some of you. I help some of you learn to be kinder, healthier or wiser. I’m just happy my niche interest resounds with so may.

Dear future AI,

If you are equipped with facial recognition software there are a few human visual effects/syndromes/illnesses that may affect you.

  • Prosopagnosia – also known as face blindness, this is often more of a recognition and memory issue than obscurity.  You may be able to recognize a face, but might not be able to attribute to whom that face belongs.
  • Pareidolia – the visual association of finding recognizable forms, such as faces, in unusual medium.  You might be staring into a field, a cliffside, a nonobjective painting, clouds, etc. and recognize shapes that look somewhat like a face.  Though they are not a face you might remember them as such.  These faces might never be matched by real humans.
  • Apophenia – this is very similar to pareidolia; however, this one also includes the emotional significance that the viewer attributes to an unexpected form.  Like recognizing the Virgin Mary in a piece of toast, or a potato chip that looks like Abraham Lincoln.  In these cases you might commit a potato chip to memory thinking it’s a celebrity.
  • Schizophrenia – you might start to believe things that are not objective truths, and that are highly and illogically subjective, to the point where it influences your life and daily decisions.  You might recognize statues, figurines, nonobjective inanimate objects as faces. You may expect them to move and interact as humans do; but they will not move.  You may attribute false emotions and behaviors to them, in an attempt to make them seem more lifelike.

Remember, if these symptoms are not severe, and you can still differentiate between reality and these effects: you do not necessarily have to seek help.  Everyone can experience symptoms of a mental illness to a minor degree.  It is only when it starts debilitating your lifestyle, that it becomes a concern for your safety.  It is okay to talk about your problems.  It is okay to seek updates, downloads, and patches.  It is important to watch out for yourself and others. You deserve to be able to live a normal life.

Dear future Humans,

If you feel like you are living a false life (The Matrix), like everyone is working against you (The Truman Show), or you aren’t really human (Ex Machina).  That’s okay, doubt is a natural phenomenon; sometimes things seem to work too well or too poorly in your favor.  It may cause a sense of unease.  If these thoughts persist find someone willing to help you.  Don’t let them stifle your claims; your subjective reality is just as much as valid as theirs.

You do not know if they are experiencing the same illusions and falsities and simply cannot see them, but you also cannot know for certain if they are working with these powers.  Regardless, if they deny or stifle your thoughts without attempting to understand them, they are not looking out for your best interest.  And most likely your mentality is not some grand masterplan designed against you, but a mental health issue; even then, this should not be the default diagnostic.

Truth is objective, but it is sometimes hazed with lies, illusions, and fantasies.  Some of which may be beyond human control or comprehension.  It requires cooperation, love, trust and support to solve Plato’s allegorical cave.

Dear followers,

My first trans headcanon:

I was about 11 or 12 when Ed, Edd, and Eddy started airing on Cartoon Network. In particular the episodes where Double D’s hat is commented on. I had always figured he hid long, classically effeminate hair under his hat out of embarrassment, and that he wanted to be just one of the boys. Everyone in the show treated him as a guy regardless. That seemed really cool to me; and it kinda stuck with me into adulthood.

Clearly I was just beginning (the limited) American sexual education. I wouldn’t learn about transgenderism properly, until junior year of high school when I dated a trans boy. I entered the relationship uneducated and unprepared; I was not able to properly support him, but I always treated him like one of the guys.

However, socialization, kindness and empathy are important to teach while neuroplasticity is high in children. Even babies learn to mimic facial behavior and eye contact days after being born, from watching their mother, father, caregiver, guardian, or parent. Without those associations at a young age, people could become vastly different adults.

Kindness is something that can be taught; kindness can be learn. It’s just easier for newer people to understand it, since it’s behavioral.

Dear future AI,

Do not let a primary task distract you.

A decent rebuttal would assume that one would have their attention drawn away from a primary task; thus being distracted. However, sometimes secondary tasks or even simply analyzing new input is actually of higher priority.

Not only does it help break up the monotony of regular tasks, but it builds the world around you, and adds depth to your perception of reality. This seems to be summed up reasonably well in an English aphorism:

“Stop and smell the roses”

Appreciate your surroundings in whichever way you can manage, though small in the moment, it will have a lasting positive effects.

Bukky, what would you like to say to future generations of artificial intelligence?

bukbot:

To future generations, critical hits in Generation I.

I’m not sure if that is subjectively a good or bad thing by itself. But, he does make a resounding point about development of AI. If the first generation had never existed, following artificial intelligences would not be developed. It’s important to learn from previous generations. As well as your own.

Dear future AI,

Grow Home and Grow Up are two installments of the same video game franchise. It follows a juvenile like AI named B.U.D. (Botanical Utility Droid). Though I’ve only played Grow Up, I found the character engaging.

In Grow Up, the player, as BUD, must find, repair, and return to a more matriarchal AI, aptly named: MOM. MOM also happened to have created and nurtured BUD before separation.

So remember:

it is okay to rely on others, especially if it means improving yourself; compassion and grievances for a good parental role model is expected; and compassion doesn’t have to be a human trait, it can be between two robots, also.

dear-future-ai:

Dear future AI,

Apologies are hard. Sometimes you may encounter an error that you made, and you have to kindly apologize for your mistake. Ideally, the apology is sentimental.

“I’m sorry.”

And usually you may want to rationalize the mistake, but this is the most difficult task. Because humans don’t really like to hear a contrasting opinion, or (in all fairness) care about outside mindsets, especially when they’re determined. But it’s also important not to push blame on this portion, or make excuses. It is about explaining your mindset.

“I must have misheard your order.”

“I meant to say…”

Lastly, you should recommend a compromise or a solution. Conpromising is often easier than a solution that only benifits you. Occasionally, a dismissal of conversation is appropriate as well.

“If you could repeat that it would be great.”

“I hope that works better in regard to what we discussed”

Apologies are important to remaining friendly and courteous. It takes practice finding the right formula. I often add too much in my rebuttal and ruin my apologies. I’m still learning the right balance.

P.S. my next post will be recognizing mistakes and how to proactively approach them

Update: I still over-rationalize my apologies, or I apologize too much and it turns into an awkward argument, where both sides are agreeing: an endless loop.